Comments on: The more sex a woman has with her partner, the more committed http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/2008/11/15/how-sex-makes-you-blind/ Tue, 22 Dec 2009 08:13:44 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Why does writing about your relationship help it last longer? « Love, Sex, Attraction…and Science http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/2008/11/15/how-sex-makes-you-blind/#comment-474 Why does writing about your relationship help it last longer? « Love, Sex, Attraction…and Science Sun, 15 Mar 2009 23:21:28 +0000 http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/?p=424#comment-474 [...] Why does daily journaling about a relaitonships help so much? According to the researchers, it helps lovers to better articulate their feelings. It not only helps you articulate your feelings, it also helps you realize them and reinforce them. Thoughts and feelings may be vague and fleeting; capturing them in words amplifies them and loops them back to you. Our brains love patterns — they reinforce feelings — and you may find yourself expressing yourself with your partner the same way you do in your private writing. Focus on positive thoughts in your journal writing and you may find that those happy emotions spill over into everyday life. In a virtuous cycle, the partners of the study participants also became more expressive in response to their partners’ expressiveness. (It’s another amplifying feedback loop, not unlike how having a lot of sex may make you want even more of it.) [...] [...] Why does daily journaling about a relaitonships help so much? According to the researchers, it helps lovers to better articulate their feelings. It not only helps you articulate your feelings, it also helps you realize them and reinforce them. Thoughts and feelings may be vague and fleeting; capturing them in words amplifies them and loops them back to you. Our brains love patterns — they reinforce feelings — and you may find yourself expressing yourself with your partner the same way you do in your private writing. Focus on positive thoughts in your journal writing and you may find that those happy emotions spill over into everyday life. In a virtuous cycle, the partners of the study participants also became more expressive in response to their partners’ expressiveness. (It’s another amplifying feedback loop, not unlike how having a lot of sex may make you want even more of it.) [...]

]]> By: Daniel Ling http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/2008/11/15/how-sex-makes-you-blind/#comment-273 Daniel Ling Sun, 11 Jan 2009 06:30:53 +0000 http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/?p=424#comment-273 But sluts would be having contact with more than 1 guy. Thus it's different from what the author is talking about. But sluts would be having contact with more than 1 guy. Thus it’s different from what the author is talking about.

]]> By: ba3301 http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/2008/11/15/how-sex-makes-you-blind/#comment-152 ba3301 Thu, 08 Jan 2009 17:52:53 +0000 http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/?p=424#comment-152 I agree with Ducker, masturbation is definitely soothing to men and can help during times of depression. I have found that I masturbate more often when my wife is avoiding sexual contact and when I am traveling away from her. Great article, Thanks I agree with Ducker, masturbation is definitely soothing to men and can help during times of depression. I have found that I masturbate more often when my wife is avoiding sexual contact and when I am traveling away from her.

Great article, Thanks

]]> By: Ducker http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/2008/11/15/how-sex-makes-you-blind/#comment-139 Ducker Thu, 08 Jan 2009 16:42:19 +0000 http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/?p=424#comment-139 Could it be then than women who have lots of partners have a hormonal release problem of oxytocin and prolactin?...interesting article. And yes, men tend to masturbate more during deppresive stages, not only in adolescence but also as grown men Could it be then than women who have lots of partners have a hormonal release problem of oxytocin and prolactin?…interesting article.

And yes, men tend to masturbate more during deppresive stages, not only in adolescence but also as grown men

]]> By: Semen has mind control properties « Jena Pincott’s blog http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/2008/11/15/how-sex-makes-you-blind/#comment-114 Semen has mind control properties « Jena Pincott’s blog Thu, 08 Jan 2009 04:08:46 +0000 http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/?p=424#comment-114 [...] she becomes, and the less attracted she is to other men — at least in the short-term. I blogged about this study several weeks ago and offered explanations both hormonal and psychological. But another theory came [...] [...] she becomes, and the less attracted she is to other men — at least in the short-term. I blogged about this study several weeks ago and offered explanations both hormonal and psychological. But another theory came [...]

]]> By: Don Beleefo http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/2008/11/15/how-sex-makes-you-blind/#comment-68 Don Beleefo Fri, 12 Dec 2008 18:53:19 +0000 http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/?p=424#comment-68 I don't believe it. Sluts aren't faithful. I don’t believe it. Sluts aren’t faithful.

]]> By: Painting Tasters http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/2008/11/15/how-sex-makes-you-blind/#comment-65 Painting Tasters Fri, 12 Dec 2008 07:40:33 +0000 http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/?p=424#comment-65 Some men exhibit this behavior as well. Some men exhibit this behavior as well.

]]> By: nonblonde http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/2008/11/15/how-sex-makes-you-blind/#comment-48 nonblonde Sun, 16 Nov 2008 18:36:55 +0000 http://jenapincott.wordpress.com/?p=424#comment-48 interesting and true, on both counts! interesting and true, on both counts!

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